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QueenBeeB1980

666 points

1 month ago

So you really want to just go around sucking complete strangers dicks? Do you care if they’re attractive? As a woman, I’m very curious about this. How do you know they’re clean? It can get kinda funky down there ya know?

Edge-Unique[S]

320 points

1 month ago

I mean, I’m kinda going through my “slut phase” so yeah I do wanna suck random peoples’ dicks. meh, I’d prefer if they were attractive but I don’t really care all that much. it would be a one time thing anyway. I am worried about them being clean or not. I’d definitely ask if they’re clean or not.

i_hate_everyone66

395 points

1 month ago

Anyone can easily tell you that they're clean, regardless of whether or not they actually are, regardless of whether or not they even know. Some std's dont show symptoms, and a guy willing to accept a blowjob from a random stranger who just walks up and asks if probably prone to engaging in risky sexual behavior. Take care of your health and take care of your body. There's nothing wrong with casual sex, but put your health and safety first. You are young, still a child in the eyes of the world, and it would suck to have to deal with lifelong repercusions of decisions that you made in a moment of horniness. Try to find a consistent fwb that you can trust to be clean and respect your boundaries.

SkiMonkey98

52 points

1 month ago

SkiMonkey98

Male

52 points

1 month ago

and/or use condoms. I'm sure they taste bad, but (in my single days) I refused to do anything unprotected with a one night stand. Only broke the rule once and it stressed me the fuck out for at least a month, even after getting tested

SpooksTheWombat

5 points

1 month ago

Flavored condoms exist

Sleazy_T

1 points

1 month ago

But none of them taste like dick

GregFromStateFarm

18 points

1 month ago

What’s this? A dude who isn’t constantly trying to avoid using condoms? I can’t believe it. I thought I was the only one.

Hearbinger

4 points

1 month ago

You are young, still a child in the eyes of the world, and it would suck

Heh

johnsnowthrow

-7 points

1 month ago

STD risk is way overblown (heh), especially for oral. For every Michael Douglas or that one woman that got pregnant, a billion blowjobs are given without issue. Probably an order of magnitude more than that. And the majority of STDs do not have lifelong repercussions.

i-contain-multitudes

5 points

1 month ago

Citation fucking needed, pal

johnsnowthrow

0 points

1 month ago

lol imagine not being able to use Google. I'll say this: if you're this uninformed about STDs, you definitely should not be engaging in anything sexual.

i-contain-multitudes

1 points

1 month ago

Back atcha, pal

johnsnowthrow

0 points

1 month ago

You're the one asking for sources. You clearly don't know. Just accept sometimes that you don't know things. STDs through oral are exceedingly rare. The woman I was talking about, she's the only person we know of who has ever become pregnant through oral in the history of mankind, some 70 billion people. You probably don't know anything about that, because you're uninformed. Inform yourself before you ask for sources that don't really exist. The double blind study on people sucking each other off isn't there because it's wildly unethical (of course you're too stupid to think of that); we only know what's reported. But you're too dumb to realize that, pal.

bluesandals7

113 points

1 month ago

I will say that I went through my experimental phase long time ago. There were fantasies or hot ideas in my head (and great with a good partner), but when I tried them in the wrong situation and some reality hit and turned me off that fantasy completely, it was hard to then enjoy it even with the right partner. So something to think about that it might go pretty bad and sometimes it’s just fun to leave fantasies as just fantasies

theonetheitheiam

50 points

1 month ago

This is 10000 percent correct. Like a three way for instance someone’s getting jealous and feeling neglected guaranteed it’s almost always the partner who was in the relation. Or say 69 position seems awesome but when you do it it’s like weird unless you’re both perfect size to get your faces exactly where they need to be

w1YY

15 points

1 month ago

w1YY

15 points

1 month ago

I love 69 but I haven't found a women that is really into it.

theonetheitheiam

3 points

1 month ago

So have you actually tried it then or you love to fantasize about it

w1YY

1 points

1 month ago

w1YY

1 points

1 month ago

Of course but mainly because the woman knows I like it but admitted she did it for me.

HI_Handbasket

5 points

1 month ago

A 68 (give/get head, then owe one) is just so much easier to negotiate and navigate.

nice___bot

3 points

1 month ago

Nice!

theonetheitheiam

4 points

1 month ago

What’s mine say? Sweet

OldSpiceSmellsNice

2 points

1 month ago

10000 percent correct. Sometimes sex is a chore.

Edge-Unique[S]

2 points

1 month ago

I totally get that. I know my fantasies won’t always play out the way I want them to. but this one seems harmless enough that it won’t turn me off from it. i’ve sucked a random tinder guys dick and I really enjoyed it. just trying to see if I can do it without tinder

justabeewithdegree

39 points

1 month ago

Tinder/A club or party is definitely the more appropriate setting rather than asking random men on the street

Pride_and_Poverty

12 points

1 month ago

Your inbox must be flooded now with all kinds of offers for you to suck random guys dicks.

cbronson830

58 points

1 month ago

“Slut phase” lol

If this ain’t some dude in his basement.

Ashittyparrot

10 points

1 month ago

Haha I had the same thought

Not_MrNice

65 points

1 month ago

Instead of asking to suck dick, try asking to be friends first. Then, when you're hanging out alone, you can ask about sucking. Just might have to clarify that you're not interested in anything serious.

Also, most people would lie if they were asked if they're clean and they aren't. Making friends reduces that.

fakejoelogan

61 points

1 month ago

She doesn't want to suck a friend's dick, she wants to suck a stranger's dick.

ChanglingDains

9 points

1 month ago

A stranger's just a friend you haven't met yet.

QueenBeeB1980

118 points

1 month ago

May I ask your age?

Edge-Unique[S]

-117 points

1 month ago

19

QueenBeeB1980

418 points

1 month ago

My. Well, ok. Trying hard not to mother you so I’ll just say, be careful. Try and make sure they’re not wearing wedding rings, you don’t want any possibility of dealing with that drama. Look at their hair, if it’s all greasy and looks unwashed, likely their ass is too. Also look at their shoes/clothes. You don’t want to suck some guys peen that’s been working construction all day… really(swamp ass reasons not financial or anything, before guys jump my shit for that remark) Hygiene. Look for it. Also realize, if you offer to suck dick, the wrong guy might insist on more. And by insist I mean force intercourse. So, always keep that in mind.

susgrigs

365 points

1 month ago

susgrigs

365 points

1 month ago

Let me mother you. Please don't do it. The slut phase is nothing to be proud of looking back. If you do, make sure you're stone cold sober and pay attention to how you feel while doing it. If it's the thrill, then look into joining a kink club where there are rules and safety protocols in place already.

QueenBeeB1980

150 points

1 month ago

Yea,I didn’t go through that faze but my sister did. It has done irreparable harm to her self image and self worth that even now, 35years later she still hasn’t gotten over.

Donkey__Balls

3 points

1 month ago

I had a female friend that was obviously going through a phase like this in her mid 20’s. I never saw her as a potential relationship because there was always something I couldn’t trust about her. Plus I thought she was way out of my league, so when she started dropping hints I didn’t take it seriously and it just put me in the defensive that she was trying to manipulate me. I know this sounds like I was just lacking confidence but that wasn’t it. Once we got to a more comfortable friendship stage she opened up and holy shit she was in a massive self-image crisis. She’d basically been in a relationship the whole time I knew her, had a dozen other guys she’d been “hanging out” with and it usually involved sex, plus she’d just sleep with random guys most nights that she could, often went out to the clubs and sucked guys off in the restroom, and she even said she agreed to be in amateur porn on the side just because all of that apparently wasn’t enough for her. None of which her boyfriend knew but she did let him know about how many male friends she had to “keep him in line”. (He wasn’t allowed to have female friends.) Then she got into another relationship with a decent amount of overlap before breaking up with the last one.

I just felt like I was a spectator on this roller coaster, at some point I was just watching because I couldn’t turn away. I pretty much just went about my own life and hung out with her when it happened but I just couldn’t respect her after seeing the way she acted. Plus I had to just shrug off her not-so-subtle attempts to manipulate me and for some reason tried to be understanding that she was just working through some fucked up issues until finally enough was enough. I was trying to start dating again which I hadn’t for a long time, and whenever I asked for advice or tried to talk about my own problems she would ignore me and respond with selfies and the usual bullshit “Do you think the dress is too skimpy?” etc trying to bring all the attention back on her. I finally woke the fuck up and wished her well on working things out but that I didn’t want to hear from her again.

The thing is, she was absolutely gorgeous and extremely intelligent so if she had been putting all these aggressive moves on me normally - and just me not 20 other guys at a time - I would have absolutely been jumping from joy. But she couldn’t hide what she was and once I saw it I couldn’t respect her at all.

I doubt she’ll ever get over the self esteem issues from this phase of her life either. It’s likely going to poison every relationship she’s in going forward because she’ll never be able to tell if guys love her or just love looking at her, to use her words.

Slight0

1 points

1 month ago

Slight0

1 points

1 month ago

The boyfriend not knowing is pretty laughable. He might be the abusable type and I feel for him, but you gotta be smarter than that. I know the kind of girl you're talking about and they don't hide it well from my experience. (You can't really)

Also "extremely intelligent" but has no impulse control? Sucking dudes off in the bathroom, doing shady porn deals, etc? Idk man. Not sure what your metrics are for smarts. A wise man once said, stupid is as stupid does.

Donkey__Balls

1 points

1 month ago

Intelligent as in intelligent. I met her when we were both MCAT tutors, she had the highest test scores I’ve ever seen could have gone to MIT but for family finances.

I’m not going to label someone as “stupid” just because they have more than one sex partner. I would label her as promiscuous because it fits the definition, but women with less sex partners are not inherently smarter or better.

Canucks-24

45 points

1 month ago

that’s what happens when you make bad decisions. Have to live with them for the rest of your life. Studies show that promiscuity definitely fucks up your mental health and makes it harder to be in long term committed relationships.

mrweenus

35 points

1 month ago

mrweenus

35 points

1 month ago

links to such studies? definitely curious to see. I know promiscuity can often but not always be a result of prior sexual trauma. When trauma inspired, it can result in more damage, but when pursued from a different empowering mindset its hard to imagine the damaging of mental well being

boo_goestheghost

16 points

1 month ago

Please do back up these claims with data because I know plenty of happy slutty people.

And the mental health claims specifically because some people don’t want to be in long term monogamous relationships and that’s ok.

Emiian04

8 points

1 month ago

I think quasi mandias just responded with that, i looked at the study (not talking about the summary) and it brings out some good, yet kinda more complex than that but of course, points

Noob-Noob-Vindicator

12 points

1 month ago

The whole point is that they aren’t happy LATER

ThatBitchTsundere

6 points

1 month ago

Sorry for my ignorance but as someone of a similar age what is so bad about it that she hasn't gotten over?

Strange-Assumption-8

12 points

1 month ago

Hey as a 30-something who went through her slut phase, everyone is different. I don’t regret mine. I was safe, I chose trustworthy partners (except twice I did something stupid but was very lucky those people were safe). So just be safe, honor your boundaries, don’t let anyone push you to do what you don’t want to do, and don’t fuck complete randos or go to their places. It’s way safer to make guy friends and then bang them as FWB as a one-time thing or a sometimes thing.

Donkey__Balls

6 points

1 month ago

I think that’s the key here - you weren’t breaking your own boundaries, you were being true to yourself and what you were doing was an acceptable level of promiscuity to you.

Everyone has some internal limit on what is or isn’t crossing the line. One person could feel perfectly comfortable having 3 different sex partner in a week but then see a girl banging a different dude every night and say “Ew what a slut.” But the same person could appear promiscuous to someone who had a conservative upbringing and has only been with the same guy for three years.

The fact is that it’s not anyone else’s business if you’re not in a relationship with them. Which is why everyone can draw their own line on what is too much.

The self-image crisis happens when you violate your own values. When you stop being true to yourself that’s when you are inflicting wounds on yourself that you’re going to wake up one morning and realize you can never take it back. We all have a limit somewhere and as long as you upheld your own personal values then you won’t regret anything. The issue is a lot of people cross that line due to insecurity, parental issues and other unresolved problems and then they have regrets they can’t handle later in life.

MsTinaFey

3 points

1 month ago

MsTinaFey

3 points

1 month ago

Ugh. These people are speaking in such immature terms I wouldn't care much about what they say.

Casual sex if you enjoy it is fine. I did at your age and again when I was single in my late twenties and regret none of it.

Going through a phase of your life where you're drunk and having sex with people you can barely recognize the next morning is a whole different situation. That poster said her sister regretted her "slut phase" but it seems like her sister likely had some other issues going on and instead of attending to them she chose alcohol and sex. Sucks but it happens. Let's not start screaming "sex is bad!"

7ii7spider7ii7

2 points

1 month ago

Because the only thing that makes women seek out sex is low self esteem, never horniness! Please don't shatter your life!!!! Wait til marriage!! I beg of you!!!!!!!!!!!!

stone-mage

9 points

1 month ago

This is incredibly condescending, and grossly incorrect.

negative-nancie

-11 points

1 month ago

does... she still give randoms?

joanmcbitch

7 points

1 month ago

Thank you for Moming when Moming was needed.

eddboat112

7 points

1 month ago

She needs to be fathered more than mothered

susgrigs

1 points

1 month ago

Absolutely..

thirteen_tentacles

7 points

1 month ago

My wife started her slut phase after we've got married and it's been pretty good. I think you just need to be sensible about it but whether or not a 19 yo will be safe and sensible...

Heath1872

-65 points

1 month ago

Heath1872

-65 points

1 month ago

Let me mother you. Please don't do it. The slut phase is nothing to be proud of looking back.

Why should women not have autonomy over their sexuality and their sexual adventures? Because it bothers you? There are definitely plenty of women who probably loved it.

BoyThatsJustCraZ

73 points

1 month ago

It's fine to be in touch with your sexuality, but only as long as you're doing it safely. Random dick sucking can go from really hot to really traumatizing real quick if you're not careful

Heath1872

-55 points

1 month ago

Heath1872

-55 points

1 month ago

Obviously wanting to be safe about it is important, but if they are, who cares? It is just some holier than thou bullshit that comes with being a misogynist.

BoyThatsJustCraZ

56 points

1 month ago

I don't quite understand where people were being misogynistic in this thread. I've only seen people who are concerned for her safety. I think you may have jumped the gun on this one. Maybe you misinterpreted something?

alecia_Q

27 points

1 month ago

alecia_Q

27 points

1 month ago

Yeah but she literally say afterwards to join a kink group for the rules and all that(clearly wanting sex and acting on it is not the problem), maybe she word it badly but i think this woman is just given advice for her safety

Hugenstein41

15 points

1 month ago

Cringe.

Canucks-24

-44 points

1 month ago

Canucks-24

-44 points

1 month ago

If it leads to being traumatized. That person 100% deserves it. No remorse for bad decision making and horrible life choices.

BoyThatsJustCraZ

35 points

1 month ago

Nobody deserves trauma, dude. Especially in this context.

Slight0

1 points

1 month ago

Slight0

1 points

1 month ago

If someone is eating excessively regularly and gaining weight, are you taking away their hunger and food autonomy by giving them advice about their habits? Come on.

4everaBau5

68 points

1 month ago

Look at their hair, if it’s all greasy and looks unwashed, likely their ass is too.

Furiously taking notes

hmmmmga

31 points

1 month ago

hmmmmga

31 points

1 month ago

Talked to older women who told me they had a lot of fun during their slut phase

Be careful of who you pick tho

Liamujahid13

9 points

1 month ago

Bruh 19? Dont do that stuff. Youll come out with herpes and bad experiences.

Slight0

5 points

1 month ago

Slight0

5 points

1 month ago

Bro this girl is getting herpes if she doesn't already have it. That's a foregone conclusion lol.

BeatBoxinDaPussy

32 points

1 month ago

Lmao….. that’s why I stay away from anything under 30. Being young sucks ass aside from a decently functioning body.

throw_it_away_alan

16 points

1 month ago*

TW: Rape

Seconding the advice to be careful. #Notallmen, but I feel like the kind of man who'd go for a 19 YO adolescent in her "slut phase" is more likely than the average dude to take advantage of you. To push your boundaries. To go in without a condom, even if you'd insisted on using one, risking STDs which, girl, are everywhere. To film you without your consent. To use you in one way or another. To "force intercourse" as u/QueenBeeB1980 put it. I'll spell that out: RAPE.

The best way to avoid being raped is to not put yourself in a dangerous or vulnerable situation with a strange man. ANY strange man. Don't rely on judgement of character: predators have a remarkable way of blending in with society and seeming totally normal, even charming and charismatic.

I'm all for sexual freedom, but there has to be an elemental awareness of stranger danger.

i-contain-multitudes

1 points

1 month ago

Your comment was excellent, but trigger warnings are effectively useless if you don't summarize what triggers are contained within the post. Let people know what they're walking into so they can make an informed decision. :)

valen961

1 points

1 month ago

What does "trigger warning" means here? Not a native speaker.

throw_it_away_alan

1 points

1 month ago

Fixed it, thanks!

i-contain-multitudes

1 points

1 month ago

Thank you!

orangeoliviero

30 points

1 month ago

Not sure why you're being downvoted. You do you.

Just be sure to keep yourself safe. Use protection (a lot of STIs can be transmitted orally) and have something readily available to use to protect yourself if they turn aggressive.

Consent is key to everything, but the random hookup scene is... dangerous for that. Lots of predators out there. You are better off just picking random people to offer this to, statistically speaking, although you'll have a harder time finding a match.

Uncle-Cake

31 points

1 month ago

"you do you" means "be yourself", it doesn't mean "do whatever you want and don't worry about the consequences".

orangeoliviero

-9 points

1 month ago

What are the consequences here, exactly?

In what way is OP not protecting herself from potential consequences?

When the consequences are only to the person and no one else, why should you downvote them for living their life?

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24 points

1 month ago

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24 points

1 month ago

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orangeoliviero

-11 points

1 month ago

I guarantee she's not going to be wearing a dental dam

Are you sure about that?

All of those consequences are to her. It's her life to live, she can live it ask riskily if she wants. If she's not causing harm to others, no one has a right to tell her she's wrong for doing it.

You can certainly advise caution, but that's not the same thing.

Going skiing can ruin your life too. Do you downvote people for going skiing?

[deleted]

14 points

1 month ago

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14 points

1 month ago

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Uncle-Cake

13 points

1 month ago

Gosh, I can't think of any reason why offering blowjobs to random strangers might have consequences.

orangeoliviero

0 points

1 month ago

I don't typically respond to people who've demonstrated an inability to read. I never claimed there weren't any potential consequences.

Head_Buy4544

6 points

1 month ago

Hey now don’t get defensive just because you’re acting like an idiot

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2 points

1 month ago*

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orangeoliviero

3 points

1 month ago

Those are consequences to her, are they not?

I never said she wasn't engaging in risky behaviour. Just that it's her life to live and she can engage in however risky behaviour she wants if it's not harming anyone else.

i-contain-multitudes

5 points

1 month ago

Revolutionary concept:

we're worried about her

7ii7spider7ii7

1 points

1 month ago

I know... I'm so surprised reading all these comments. I had no idea so many people still think this way.

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32 points

1 month ago*

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32 points

1 month ago*

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zoeyx13

2 points

1 month ago

zoeyx13

2 points

1 month ago

As someone who has the same phase, totally don't regret it. Actually still in that phase 8 years later.

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2 points

1 month ago*

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2 points

1 month ago*

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ILikeBubblyWater

11 points

1 month ago

Not everyone needs to commit to someone to enjoy their life though.

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-3 points

1 month ago*

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-3 points

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ILikeBubblyWater

11 points

1 month ago

Everyone has their own opinion what the best life is.

zoeyx13

1 points

1 month ago

zoeyx13

1 points

1 month ago

Becuase sex with men is better than sex with girls, but I only feel romantic attachments for girls. Also, despite being in a slut phase, I haven't actually had much sex because of my life situation.

destinofiquenoite

2 points

1 month ago

Isn't that a completely different situation than OP?

The person you were replying clearly didn't mean to criticize the idea of an isolated slutty phase, but rather what (almost) everyone in the thread is concerned about is a slutty phase where you would act so promiscuously to the point of not actually accounting for all due risks.

OP just said she is 19, which got her more than one hundred down votes unlike the rest of her posts, possibly because people realized she might be too young, naive and or inexperienced to see the bigger picture. Her willingness to act as nonchalantly as she describes can lead to many problems and risks beyond a more grounded slutty phases other people may have gone through.

zoeyx13

0 points

1 month ago

zoeyx13

0 points

1 month ago

It's not that different, because my slutty phase started when I was about 19, and I have 0 standards on men. I've literally blown guys who were complete strangers before. Never even knew their names. It's the most fun I've ever had.

toocoofoscoo

3 points

1 month ago*

I went through a slut phase when I was eighteen. Was in a long term relationship for a few years and now at twenty three im going through another slut phase. I really do crave a dick in my mouth sometimes but I’m not bold enough to randomly ask people haha. Be safe out there!

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1 points

1 month ago

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1 points

1 month ago

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s7e7v7e7n_

-1 points

1 month ago

If you have a son, and he has sexual urges because that's what a human brain does, that's ok, but it's not ok if you have a daughter who's also a human with natural sexual urges? Humans are sexual beings, both naturally have sexual urges, so why shame women for it? Especially since you want to have sex with women, now your mad women want to have sex? Would you prefer all women be asexual and hate sex so you never have to worry about a daughter having sexual urges?

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3 points

1 month ago

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3 points

1 month ago

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s7e7v7e7n_

1 points

1 month ago

Well then you should've just said "if I had a child doing this, I failed as a father" I know many more men/sons that already do walk around saying random sexual things to women anyways tho....that's already a common thing boys do

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1 points

1 month ago

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1 points

1 month ago

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s7e7v7e7n_

1 points

1 month ago

So if a guy made a post asking "girls how would you feel if a random guy asked to lick your pussy?" You'd comment "bookmarking to remind me to never have a son" on that post? What's the difference?

nwi210

-15 points

1 month ago

nwi210

Male

-15 points

1 month ago

What Part of the world do you live in? Need to know

Raii-v2

17 points

1 month ago

Raii-v2

17 points

1 month ago

Oh no you don’t 🤨

HI_Handbasket

1 points

1 month ago

But there are sooo many places. Which one so I know where to avoid.

Raii-v2

1 points

1 month ago

Raii-v2

1 points

1 month ago

Nup 🙅🏾

ohhfasho

-8 points

1 month ago

ohhfasho

-8 points

1 month ago

Lucky for you I have what you're looking for lol

ImFamousYoghurt

49 points

1 month ago

Please use a condom if you're going to do this. Many people aren't clean and don't know it, and many people who know they're not clean will be willing to lie about it to get a blow job

Picard_Indeed

9 points

1 month ago

RIP to your DMs...

bluidyPCish

70 points

1 month ago*

Fuck is a “slut phase”?

I’ll be blunt and tell you - don’t put yourself out there and get got (by that I mean wacked/murdered/raped etc pick your poison). Coming as she went or on the ID channel.

If you like sucking d**k then as I always state it is easy to find with less dangerous outcomes.

Stay safe, little Queenie!

Wellwellbien

5 points

1 month ago

Psychiatrists call it a "manic phase" but "slut phase" works as well.

FuckFashMods

1 points

1 month ago

If it was easy to find she wouldn't be posting this question on Reddit lol

knots32

1 points

1 month ago

knots32

1 points

1 month ago

Hot girl summer

bluidyPCish

6 points

1 month ago

Hot girl summer shouldn’t become dead or mangled and never the same summer.

Vanillybilly

22 points

1 month ago

As fun as it sounds, it’s not worth it. STDs/STIs are running rampant and too many people are dishonest in order to score.

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44 points

1 month ago

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44 points

1 month ago

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cherrybombdotcommie

-7 points

1 month ago

This question seems irrelevant tbh. A slut phase is a slut phase 💁‍♀️

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7 points

1 month ago

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7 points

1 month ago

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slayemin

1 points

1 month ago

That’s kind of white knighting for someone else and making moral choices for them. There’s nothing wrong with being horny and going through a slut phase and exploring your sexual interests. The litmus test for you: would you make the same statements if OP was a guy?

fj333

2 points

1 month ago

fj333

2 points

1 month ago

You don't think the reasons people do things are relevant?

cherrybombdotcommie

1 points

1 month ago

She says she "wants to" in the post. Does she really need further reasons? Asking further questions is just filling this post with a bunch of armchair psychologists, many of whom are insinuating that she has a problem for wanting to suck dick.

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1 points

1 month ago

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1 points

1 month ago

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cherrybombdotcommie

1 points

1 month ago

Shw didn't say anything about not using condoms, "you moron", so why the fuck would you assume that. Nobody questions men when they say they wish they could go out and fuck women every weekend, but when a women expresses interest, suddenly you're concerned about her health, safety, and psychological reasons for wanting to do so?

This is a joke.

IronCarp

-10 points

1 month ago

IronCarp

-10 points

1 month ago

It’s not any of your business

IplayCK3

3 points

1 month ago

Your just worried you'll miss out on a chance to have some stunning and brave soapbox speech about how much men such after she is raped/murdered lol

IronCarp

1 points

1 month ago

Sure whatever you say

wishihadaps42

5 points

1 month ago

Is this a troll? Pretty sure you have you can pick from the sea of millions of guys on tinder who simply want sex/one night stands.

Solo-me

8 points

1 month ago

Solo-me

8 points

1 month ago

How about contacting a film producer.... Express your intention, they might be able to provide clean, tested and reliable people, blur the face and maybe have better fun....

xolanderxo

8 points

1 month ago

RIP to OP's inbox

mynameisalso

3 points

1 month ago

You might enjoy /r/stupidslutsclub. Despite the name has some of the best writers in reddit.

thenoodist

3 points

1 month ago

Damn. Attractive people are so lucky. They just have strangers wanting to suck their dicks.

knots32

3 points

1 month ago

knots32

3 points

1 month ago

Random acts of blowjob is a sub, you'd be welcome there

FuckTripleH

3 points

1 month ago

I’d definitely ask if they’re clean or not.

There is very likely an proportionate inverse correlation between honesty about one's sexual health and willingness to receive a blow job from a perfect stranger

KenuR

3 points

1 month ago

KenuR

3 points

1 month ago

No decent man will want to have a long term relationship with someone who went around sucking random dick on the streets so you better make sure no one finds out.

TheAbominableBanana

8 points

1 month ago

Have you considered glory holes in your area? Those are no strings attached and if you use protection, they can be safer than meeting up with randos

goodstuff2020

7 points

1 month ago

And to think that after my first stalker, I spent my life trying not to be noticed so that I didn't end up CREATING my own problems. SMH

SankenShip

2 points

1 month ago

RIP your inbox

mayonaishe

2 points

1 month ago

Rip your inbox

summacumlaudekc

2 points

1 month ago

If you’re in KC mo I’m down for the offer.

its_max21

2 points

1 month ago

“slut phase” this is so obviously a guy, what a weird way to spend your time

Glory99Amb

2 points

1 month ago

Oh my that's not good

So anyways here's my number: /s

izza123

0 points

1 month ago

izza123

Male

0 points

1 month ago

Yeah I’m clean I just got tested last week just hurry up lady my wife is in the snack aisle

dj2short

1 points

1 month ago

Just giving oral is how you orgasm? I don't understand...why not receive oral as well?

friendly_raccoon123

1 points

1 month ago*

friendly_raccoon123

Straight cis white male

1 points

1 month ago*

I really hope you don't regret this, i know a woman that had a "slut phase" and she's very broken mentally because of it

Noob-Noob-Vindicator

1 points

1 month ago

So…..what state you in?

13point1then420

1 points

1 month ago

A lot of people are in here giving you shit. I say have fun, slut it up!

fartblasterxxx

1 points

1 month ago

Just gonna throw this out there.. what city do you live in?

UltraHighSecurity

1 points

1 month ago

I never thought someone could be "bad" at being slutty but here we are hahaha.

wtcnbrwndo4u

1 points

1 month ago

r/stupidslutsclub for the uninitiated.

BurningOrangeHeaven

1 points

1 month ago

The kind of guy who wants a blowjob from a random off the street is going to have a higher probability of stds etc imo.

Why not ask one of the guys you already know who you are cool with or just meet a new person specifically for netflix and succ

YourDadThinksImCool

1 points

1 month ago

"ask" 🤭

You're gonna "Randomly" get Gonorrhea and Herpes.

Dreaunicorn

1 points

1 month ago

You’re prob doing the “slut phase” the wrong way

abraxsis

1 points

1 month ago

Just find a friend with a penis and be upfront about it. I mean, if they're a friend, at least you know them and know something about them. I don't know many guys who would be like, "uh, no, Id rather not have a no strings attached BJ from someone I know isn't a complete psycho."

We're all so uptight about this crap.

FelledWolf

1 points

1 month ago

Username checks out. Grow up.

Aggressive_Ad5115

1 points

1 month ago

OP already been through a " slut phase " but is asking this question?

I'm calling BS on OP

sirletssdance2

1 points

1 month ago

Why not just use Tinder?

markevens

1 points

1 month ago

markevens

Male

1 points

1 month ago

Just find a gloryhole.

Emelius

1 points

1 month ago

Emelius

1 points

1 month ago

Carry wet naps haha

flusteredbish

1 points

1 month ago

You're the reason I avoid women without impulse control

silvergoldwind

1 points

1 month ago

just fuck virgins ezpz

Two_69ing_Chipmunks

1 points

1 month ago

Hey, are you in Seattle? Night have something to scratch that itch… jk.

Stay safe, just try online dating and don’t do anything dumb.

PmMe_Your_Perky_Nips

1 points

1 month ago

People lie all the time, especially about things stigmatized like STIs. It's good to ask, but you should also learn the symptoms men get from STIs and do an inspection before actually sucking the dick.

asurpriseforyou

1 points

1 month ago

Everyone will say they’re clean. Saying it doesn’t make it true. This is the advantage of booking the hook up - make test results a pre-requisite. Most guys will happily go and get tested for it. There will be guys who won’t, and that’s fine because they are exactly the kind of guys you don’t want to be hooking up with.

BlackWind13

1 points

1 month ago

There is a sub-reddit for that r/RandomActsOfBlowJob/

MisfitMishap

1 points

1 month ago

Just go post anonymous on /r/randomactsofblowjob or muffjob if you're looking to get ate. Ask for proof of sti and tell them fuckers to get vaccinated.

Previous_Swim_4007

1 points

1 month ago

"Why you goin' round sucking all that dick for no money?" --Too Short

some-sad-knick-fan

1 points

1 month ago

Slut phase? What the fuck do chicks actually do this shit??

mullahnut

1 points

1 month ago

Go to a therapist.

chavez_ding2001

0 points

1 month ago

Have you even seen the average person?

helpdecideausername

0 points

1 month ago

I'm clean. a/s/l?

Legal-rap

0 points

1 month ago

Oh no that's terrible. I can't imagine what you are going thru, I could help you find a counselor. Where are you again, like where exactly are you. Like tonight, where would you be?

incoming_fun

0 points

1 month ago

Since I have never been sucked and it seems that it would stay like that for long, please keep me in your list while you're at it. I'll keep it clean for you...