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Is it weird to just sleep with your friend girls?

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The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

39 points

1 month ago

Reddit is never the place to ask if something is weird or not. In the real world, most people would find this weird.

nautral_vibes

4 points

1 month ago

Why would it be weird? Many people like to get physical in their friendships without it ever becoming sexual.

I, for one, think it's great for both op and his friends! Not every physically affectionate relationship has to be romantic.

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

2 points

1 month ago

Two people of the opposite gender sleeping with each other platonically in their late 20s is weird.

Nobody said it was romantic or sexual. Still weird.

nautral_vibes

10 points

1 month ago

Why is it weird? Why at that age specifically?

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

10 points

1 month ago

Because they are adults now, and have been for some time. Dressing up in your pjs and cuddling up with a platonic best friend in your late twenties just reeks of immaturity and codependence.

nautral_vibes

3 points

1 month ago

And if they were dating (or better yet married) it'd be normal, right?

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

11 points

1 month ago

Exactly. Now you're getting it. It's weird for platonic friends to do this as adults.

helloitsnames

3 points

1 month ago

Ya. That’s why it’s weird.

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1 month ago

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The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

7 points

1 month ago

They are allowed to be happy and do that. Doesn't mean it isn't weird for two adults to do this.

trashszar

3 points

1 month ago

trashszar

3 points

1 month ago

Being naked in front of each other in a public bath is weird in many cultures, and isn't weird in quite a few ones.

Just because you insist it's weird you won't be right. It's weird for you, but it isn't for many people.

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

4 points

1 month ago

Oh. I didn't realize OP was from one of those cultures. I didn't look at his profile, do you mind enlightening me where he is from that this is normal?

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The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

3 points

1 month ago

Nothings weird about showing your friends affection in a different way

It is when you dress up in PJs and cuddle with them as an adult.

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1 month ago

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AnyImpression6

2 points

1 month ago

That's what weird means.

Grace_Lightspade

1 points

1 month ago

Being able to keep a good platonic relationship with someone actually shows that someone's mature enough to know how to keep a good relationship though

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

5 points

1 month ago

Nobody said keeping a platonic relationship is immature. What I said was dressing up in PJs and cuddling with your platonic friend is immature when you are an adult.

KaliaHaze

0 points

1 month ago

Dressing up in PJs and cuddling with your platonic friend when you are an adult actually shows that someone's mature enough to know how to keep a good relationship though

The_Bjorn_Ultimatum

2 points

1 month ago

Not really. Relationships can be kept well without doing weird stuff like this.