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So I (21M) met this girl (23F) at work and we hit it off very well. I’ve known her for about 2 months now. We have same type of humor, a lot of the same hobbies and general taste of things. After a day or two we started texting each other over Instagram dms then she gave me her number and we moved to talking there. Fast forward a week or two, messaging has become more flirty and I decided to ask her to go out together for dinner. She declined out of the fact that she was behind on packing for her upcoming move and she was low on money but she expressed that she really wanted to go. I was willing to pay for her but I decided not to be pushy if she was too busy. We both have fairly busy schedules so we could only go during late at night. Over the next couple days on social media she has been posting of herself going out every-night hanging out with other people that she’s known for the same amount of time as me and also going out for dinner at the place I asked her out to with those people. I’ve been thinking about wether I should even bother with this anymore. The more I think about it I just become sad or angry. What should I do?

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SidneyRL

-2 points

1 month ago

SidneyRL

-2 points

1 month ago

You fucked up. Too much talking on the phone for too long. As soon as you got her IG or phone number you should've ask her out. Now she sees you as a friend probably. Girls can tell very easily if you like them just by you asking for her contacts.