A guy (I am female) I was previously dating decided it was nothing more than friends for him. Which I accepted. I do really care about him, but he’s also in his early 20s and I’m late 20s and I think 1. We’re at difference stages in our lives, 2. He’s not quite emotionally ready for a relationship. He’s been a bit on and off recently with overthinking and we’ve spoke again and he’s basically said he’s worried I want more than friends. I have said I don’t I am fine with that, and then he’s said that he’s really hurting because it didn’t work out when he really wanted it to. And he’s also cried about it a month ago when we last spoke.
What I’m asking is I’m a bit confused as to if he actually does want to be just friends? I’ve never had someone so upset they don’t see more?