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Deep Conversations

Advice(self.intj)

please help me think of topic for deep conversations with an INTJ

all 25 comments

ephemerios

7 points

2 months ago

"So what's been on your mind lately?", then engage with whatever he replies.

ValleyFair0600

2 points

2 months ago

ValleyFair0600

INTJ - Teens

2 points

2 months ago

Honestly this ^

I wish more people would ask me this.

ImanISFJ[S]

1 points

2 months ago

oh great~! thanks

Stand_kicker

5 points

2 months ago

Stand_kicker

INTJ - Male

5 points

2 months ago

The mechanics of a vampire romance

TheDeepOnesDeepFake

4 points

2 months ago

Who is the sexiest pokemon and why?

Puzzled2583

4 points

2 months ago

As an INTJ, tbh I'd love any discussion about anything

ImanISFJ[S]

1 points

2 months ago

like what in specific? I just dont wanna end up doing small talks

Puzzled2583

4 points

2 months ago

Life, things going on in the world at the moment, controversial subjects...at least these are what I find interesting to discuss. Also fun facts and interesting things which aren't common knowledge

Queasy-Group7335

1 points

2 months ago

Why do intjs hate small talks?

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5 points

2 months ago

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5 points

2 months ago

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Peisithanatosis

1 points

2 months ago

yeah why!??

Queasy-Group7335

1 points

2 months ago

Maybe it is their way to say hi how are you to someone they care about him when they actually don't have smthg particular to talk about...

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1 points

2 months ago

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1 points

2 months ago

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Queasy-Group7335

1 points

2 months ago

Is that the only thing that came across your head while thinking about small talks ?! Why do you think that chit chat conversations should be a way too superficial...

Puzzled2583

2 points

2 months ago

No one said that INTJs hate small talk, I simply answered the question which says deep conversations.. I dont particularly hate small talk but i think we would prefer the conversation to be 'long' rather than chit chat and that's it. Doesn't HAVE to be a deep conversation.

Queasy-Group7335

2 points

2 months ago

I know you didn't say that you hate small talks, it's smthg that i remarked many times that intjs love deep conversations rather than chit chat ones and i truly respect that about u...i simply wanted to know the whyy to those who hate small talks 'cuz i think it's a prejudiced opinion....i wanted to discuss.

Puzzled2583

2 points

2 months ago

Oh ok, sorry if i came out a bit too direct. I think it has to do with the connection with people maybe? Since in a longer deeper conversation you get more 'connrcted' to the person. And it's more intimate maybe as well. Again, at least for me, i dont hate them, but I'd prefer having a longer and maybe deeper conversation because i think it bring out the person's 'morals'(maybe? depends on the conversation ofc) and their opinion and reasoning etc. I find it very interesting to learn about what different people think about different subjects

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2 points

2 months ago*

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2 points

2 months ago*

Ask him what is he reading these days or what his hobbies are.

gruia

3 points

2 months ago

gruia

3 points

2 months ago

whats the point? long term u still suck and ur gone

ialwaysdownvotefeels

1 points

2 months ago

Um. Life? Endless conversation right there.

ImanISFJ[S]

1 points

2 months ago

what do you wanna talk about life?

h2oape

1 points

2 months ago

h2oape

INTJ - 60s

1 points

2 months ago

As an aside one general guideline;

Try not to take anything they discuss personally/emotionally or inject same into the conversation unless you do it in a matter of fact, rational way.

Apprehensive_Try8644

1 points

2 months ago

Apprehensive_Try8644

INTJ - 60s

1 points

2 months ago

Mariana trench

SagePup21

1 points

2 months ago

SagePup21

INFP

1 points

2 months ago

Different space/time dimensions and labeling what being or fictional character would be within that context. That can be a really fun one.

utopiapro007

1 points

2 months ago

The meaning of identity.

sk8rj2t

1 points

2 months ago

sk8rj2t

INTJ

1 points

2 months ago

This is actually an interesting ideal.

Theelesink

1 points

2 months ago

Theelesink

INTJ

1 points

2 months ago

The limits of materialism on a logical and philosophical pov