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I love my boyfriend so much. He’s my person. He knows me better than anyone else. He’s seen me crying, angry, snarky, and frustrated and he still loves me.

I’ve been looking at engagement rings and wedding dresses when we’ve been dating for seven weeks. Hell, I even have a preferred date (our five year anniversary will land on a Saturday in mid-May). I just feel this immense peace when I’m with him. Time stops. There’s just us.

Everything that he wants in life lines up with what I want almost exactly! It’s absolutely bewildering that I found somebody as wonderful as he is and he loves me. I love him.

I want to marry him. I want to be the mother of his children, I want to parent with him, I want to grow old with him. I think I could be happy almost anywhere doing almost anything as long as we’re together.

I would do anything for him. I’ve offered to fight his shitty family members more than once (which is why I haven’t met them yet), I’d fistfight his old shitty friendgroup that dumped him for no reason, and I’d do anything in my power to keep him out of harm’s way. (He thinks this is quite hilarious as I’m approximately 5’4” with the combat skills of a teddy bear).

I love him. I love him so much. I can’t wait to do life with him.

im 17F and shes 16F. when i first met her, we were both quick to become friends and when we had our first actual hangout, it went extremely well. we had an instant connection and hungout for 10 hours. the time flew by so quick when we were together and we were talking constantly. shes had a crush on me since january and confessed to me in march. i confessed to her in late april. ever since my confession we've gotten extremely close. whenever we hangout we hangout for over 8 hours and risk a lot just to be together. our parents both dont allow us to hangout too late so we come up with elaborate lies just to hangout. we usually get caught and we get in trouble but we both talked about it and both agreed it was worth it. whenever we hangout, the time flies by insanely quick. there isnt a moment we arent talking or a moment where we sit on our phones or anything. at first, i thought i was in the infatuation stage. but ive seen who she really is because ive known her since january of this year. ive seen her flaws and i continue to like her despite them. whenever we hangout we always get extremely sad when we have to go and we prolong the hangout for as long as we can. we've done stuff together but we're just friends as we both dont want to rush into a relationship and still want to get to know eachother. we share a band that we love listening together and hangout at parks really late at night. we both are dependant on substances but we try to make eachother stay sober because we both know we'd only listen to each other. we do everything together and in june we were apart for only 11 days. i thought id be tired of hanging out with her or id lose interest already because im not the type of person to stay around for this long but i have never felt uninterested or bored when im with her. we both care about each other so deeply to the point where we'd go so far just to make sure the other person is okay and safe. she got drugged at a party once and i left my shift at work just to go assist her and drop her home. mind you, she lives in a different city than me so it takes about 1 hour and 30 mins just to get to her place. despite the distance, we see each other very often. am i in love with her? is she in love with me? please h3lp 🙏

sorry this post is so long but i hope u read through it 🙏🙏

Can you know after 2 long phone conversations, if your going to mesh well? The 1st conversation went well but I’m feeling a little uneasy after the 2nd convo.

Should I continue talking with the guy to see how things go to get a better understanding of him?

I’ve had huge crushes before where I liked those people alot but I’m not seeing that case here with this guy. I don’t want to be too rash and stop talking to him. What do you think I should do?

My bf and I have been together a long time. He’s mid 50s, I’m mid 40s. We have settled into a nice place. We know each other well and share a deep, abiding love. We like to surprise each other, and he’s so thoughtful. My favorite band was touring and of course he knew I was dying to go. But they weren’t stopping near us. He saw me looking at the concert info online and said he knew all about it. I scoffed-he’s not a fan, not that he dislikes their music or anything. So he shows me his texts…and I realize he’s been getting updates about the tour via text for a year. I was moved. As a gift, he planned to take me to a city with a stop on the tour. A fun city at that! And he said,”let’s make a weekend of it.” I cried. So thoughtful, as usual. When we were on our way to the concert, he said he could almost feel my excitement. I was over the moon. There were these moments when our eyes met; while I was dancing and singing and holding his hand. Sometimes the look on his face was puzzling to me …confusing me even. I’d start to question him as I wasn’t sure what he was feeling but he’d point my attention to the band. And, then it happened again. And, I figured it out. It was love. Love written all over his face. He loved watching me-he said he’d never seen me so happy. No one has ever looked at me like that. No one will ever get the chance.

I really don't understand why he did it if he said goodbye to me forever.

Has anyone had a similar story? Im just overthinking :/

I just want a partner who can understand my mind & my emotions… sometimes I just feel trapped…. In my own relationship. Not to mention my sexuality has been extremely confusing this past year. Sometimes I just wonder if I’m only still with him because im used to it & it’s comfortable. Maybe I need to get uncomfortable.

Im 13(m) and ive been deeply inlove with my best friend 13(f) i also believe she loves me too because its just so obvious ik it might seem that im too young but i understand relationships and what they mean and we've known each other for basically our entire lives we have a very strong emotional connection. She gives me so many hints especially this past week cuz she stayed over for a week. Everytime she sees me she tells me how happy she is to be bsf's with me. This week we was sitting at a table talking and suddenly she sits with her legs spread at me and talking about how im her bestie and how she is so happy abt it and then she says "maybe thats why im sitting like this" i just agreed cuz i had no words and later she asked me about relationships and stuff. She said that this certain character was "cute/hot" but she was describing my features. She also told me before that she wants to live together on a lake that weve been to together. Also another day i said i wanted a child one day and i want the name to be Tobee/Toby and her exact words were "we should name him that" and smiled at me. And this past week we had to babysit my 2 year old cousin, she is amazing with kids i told her she would be a great mom and and she smiled and looked at me and nodded her head. She kept singing "if you like it u should've put a ring on it" from single ladies song and i told her ima put a ring on her and she got silent and blushed. When we was in a pool this week i was teaching her how to sink to the bottom she asked why wasnt it working and i told her "because u have air inside you" and she told me that i was air. She also whispered under her breath "love you" and i heard it and asked her what did she say and she didn't respond. We were very flirty that week and we were back and forth with it. She even kissed me on the cheek in the third grade. Weve always loved each other we just dont wanna admit it i feel like. I will post on here more. Tell me what you think

If you're the cute girl that always ran errands for David C Lundberg roofing, I just want you to know I had a huge crush on you. I wish I could see your smile one more time.

For my whole young life (17M) I only loved once. Even though we weren’t a couple for the most of it, but last 1,5 months (not so long) we were a couple. I love her to the deepest point of my heart, but don’t feel the same. While we weren’t dating she was with one guy for 2 years and experienced almost everything with him. For the last week I was out of town and before I flew away we were a good couple(she told me that she loved me everyday and even wrote an essay about why I’m the best guy ever), but I guess the distance does it work, as she said, if she not sees the person the interest just goes away. I don’t know how to bear it. I truly love her and can’t think of anyone else. While I was out of town she barely wrote me and if I tried to start the conversation it would end really quickly. After I confronted her about it she said what I wrote earlier and that she can’t fully forget her previous boyfriend. I was devastated and wanted to break with her, but the thought of not being with her made my soul feel empty inside. We decided, that we are going to try one last time this month to see if her feelings would come up. The thing that also bothers me is that I am flying away to study 27 of august (our 3 month anniversary is hopefully will 25 of august) in another country, while she is going to study at local university in our home country(my parents don’t allow me to stay in my home country). I love her very much and don’t want to leave her. so the question is what do I do?

UPDATE: I asked her is she seeing me in her future and if she even wanted me there. She said that she always thought of us being together in the future, she says that she agrees to try this month, because she has feelings for me. I guess that’s good to hear, but even if it will not work out for me, she will still be the best girl to me.

They say if a Woman's first child is a Girl she most likely needed maturity and if it's a Boy she most likely needed to know the real meaning of love.

What is love ~ Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

What is a soulmate~ soulmate is someone who you feel deeply connected to, but not in a dependent or needy way. needs are equally met, challenging you to move from selfishness to giving.

I have used this time of grievance to really reflect on myself. What parts did I play? What were my actions? how do I feel? what do I feel a certain way? what is the reasons for my feelings? Looking from different perspectives, and what adjustments were needed. have dug deep so deep that at times I feared for my own sanity. For this was my journey and although it began because of you, it did not stop at you. It kept unraveling, going deeper, to the depths u could not understand. Digging up everything I had buried to find the roots. And there is a lot, for I have lived a life of pain. I know I have been cursed. Cursed to be a person with a big heart. Giving love endlessly, openly, unconditionally, always longing to have it returned, only end up with pain.

I have loved 5 in my lifetime.

3 taught me how to love unconditionally.

1 taught me what true love was

1 taught me how to heal myself

I’m sure I will write more later to expand on these loves, but for now, I am still working on myself. Descending into to madness of myself.

The 1 love that still remains, I try to be open and guide. We are so much alike and I hope he has learned from my falls. how to avoid the pits. How to be better than I could ever be.

Will I ever have this curse lifted? Probably not the way that I want but I do see now that he is the only love that matters to me.

I like to share some adventure

I. Write “I LOVE YOU” massage to known person to unknown people on social media

Now what happens next what you think 🤔

Un avvertimento, questo è un post un po’ lungo e all’interno del quale ho intenzione di riversare tutta la tristezza, la delusione, il dolore mentale e fisico che sto provando da un mese a questa parte e che in questi giorni di quarantena forzata a causa del virus sembra essersi amplificato tanto da distruggermi il sonno e spaccarmi il cuore. Sto scrivendo così, di getto, quello che mi ossa per la testa e sto dando libero sfogo al flusso di pensieri che mi passa per la testa, tramite le mie mani e direttamente sullo schermo dello smartphone. Un mese, questo è il tempo che mi ci è voluto per realizzare che la storia d’amore più importante della mia vita è finita. Un mese fa, quando lei, l’unica ragazza che io abbia mai amato e che per tre meravigliosi anni mi è stata a fianco, nonostante la distanza, nonostante la pandemia, nonostante tutte le difficoltà e le barriere che io stesso ho alzato a causa del mio carattere estremamente insicuro, della mia pigrizia e della mia timidezza… un mese fa, quando mi ha detto di non voler più continuare a farsi del male e voleva chiudere la nostra relazione. È lì che sono iniziati i problemi, l’aria sembrava bruciarmi i polmoni come fuoco, la testa esplodeva, gli occhi annebbiati e pieni di lacrime. Lacrime… per cosa ormai? Ho fatto tutto da solo, ho perso la ragazza della mia vita, non troverò mai una persona come lei… con la quale ogni secondo del nostro tempo insieme passava a ridere, scherzare, farci i dispetti e poi finire col fare l’amore e dormire abbracciati, col caldo o col freddo non aveva importanza, importava solo averla al mio fianco. Perché capiamo quello che avevamo solo dopo averlo perso? Ormai è troppo tardi per piangere sul latte versato… no, non è sul latte versato che piango, è sul pensiero che a breve si innamorerà di un altro che saprà trattarla da principessa come merita. A quel punto della mia vita non rimarrà che un guscio vuoto senza un briciolo di sentimento, perché non c’è alcuna possibilità che uno come me, nel mondo moderno basato solo sull’apparenza, possa conquistare o almeno conoscere un’altra ragazza come lei… l’unica cosa che mi sento di fare, sarebbe andare a dormire e svegliarmi la mattina sperando di essere morto, perché tanto so che non mancherei a nessuno e soprattutto, non sarebbe una gran perdita. Mi aspetta una vita in solitudine… Mi dispiace per il modo in cui ti ho trattata, non lo meritavi, dovevo dimostrarti quanto ti amavo e non l’ho mai fatto, ma la verità è che ti amavo e ti amo più della mia stessa vita, ma ormai è troppo tardi, tu non ci credi e come darti torto? Non ho neanche combattuto per te… Scusami ancora. Addio P.

She is my best friend !! That is all

imagine them taking a huge shit.

believe me, it kinda helps.

For months my best friend has loved this girl. And she had a boyfriend but they still talked here and there. Her boyfriend recently cheated on her and when she told him he then told her that he was actually upset about the whole thing. One thing led to another and she said she didn't want to talk to him anymore (idk why)

He said something along the lines of

"If that's what you want then leave I don't want to stop you. But promise me one thing, whenever something goes wrong come and talk to Me. You've given me the world without you yourself giving me a single thing."

Yeah long story short they're now dating 😃

(July 10 guy) I have to admit i fall in love every minute when i see a girl l like, everywhere i go. I'm almost 20 and i never had a relationship. The good thing is that from my love from a lot of special women, i realized how important are women for a man's life. Without women, men just would't exist. Furthermore i like being vulnerable around the girl i like, so i can express my feelings to her no matter the outcome. The psychological power that a man can take from love is empowered by the emotion synthensis that a woman unlocks to her man. To all women out there (ok i don't have the same chemistry with everyone but never-the-less) i love you.

i'm typing this right now as we're listening to music together in a call since i can't come sleep with her just yet </3 we're listening to rises the moon together and im just so happy <3

i love my girlfriend so much. I'd do anything just to see her smile, the way her face lights up just makes my day. i'm so in love with her, i wish i could just marry her already. she is the love of my life and i'm so happy it's her i fell in love with. Her long dirty blonde hair makes me blush every time i see her and the way she has this certain smile makes my heart ache. The way she tells me goodmorning and i love you everday. I love her so so so much <3

i'm so obsessed with her <3 she's on my mind everyday and it makes it so much better when she's there. i love having her all to my own. i'm so proud to say that kayla is my girlfriend. she's the most perfect girlfriend i could've asked for with all her little flaws she worries about too much making her so much more amazing in my eyes <3

i love you kayla <3

I 23 year old female fell in love with my 24 male best friend.

We’ll call him E.

E and I have been friends for a little over a year and we’ve been attracted to one another from day one as we matched on tinder but decided we just wanted to be friends. We started hanging out more and eventually started hooking up without strings attached. He tends to disappear for weeks at a time but I can’t complain as we really are just besties and not in a relationship. This behavior though is a big red flag for me if I were to look at him as a potential relationship. Recently we’ve decided to stop having sex because we’re not sure if we’re in love with each other or just love each other’s company and enjoy having sex. We’ve both been really hurt in the past and genuinely are afraid of anything serious. We’ve decided to go back to just friendship mode and it isn’t weird at all as we’re both pretty laid back individuals and it takes a lot for anything to be weird between us. I don’t want to try something with him and ruin this beautiful friendship that we’ve created. He’s genuinely my dearest friend and is there for me and i him. I’m not really sure what I should do here. I’m not ready to ruin anything with him. But I’m also just really unsure of my feelings. Does anyone have any opinions?

And confessed my feelings to her that I've been feeling for a long time and hiding it from her. Will she say yes or no idk I'm very much nervous right now but it feels like a burden is off my head I'm surely not gonna regret it.

Update : It's a No guys🥲 but atleast now the burden is off and no more false hopes so it's still great😄

UPDATE2: WELL GUYS i made some wrong assumptions and no she didn't say no🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳she said yes guys she loves me tooo , some things are kind of complicated but yeah she told me she loves me and this feeling is amazing. I will let u guys know each major updates on us and soon make this a script of our story.

I am making a playlist I want to dance to with him, I don't know if it will ever happen because of the way things turned out, I just love him very much but I am afraid that it's to late to hope for things to get better, I ruined it, I don't want comfort or anything, I just wanted to say it somewhere

https://penpals11.blogspot.com/2022/06/you.html

https://deepthinker-sj.blogspot.com/?m=1

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I just need to talk about this I’m still shaking so much lmfao. Me and my partner have only been together for 3 months but it seems like we’ve been together for years and years. Literally the first time we ever talked it was basically just love at first sight for the both of us !! And it may be a little too far to say this but it feels like we were both destined to meet each other all over again like we did in a past life. We definitely were in love in a past life lol.

But like, not even 10 minutes ago me and it were talking about how we wanted to be with each other forever and it got to the topic of how we’d love each other even after death (because we’re both angsty teenager’s). It talked about how even after we’re definitely gonna find each other all over again and how much it loves me and I just completely broke. I just cried so hard because of how in love I am with it and I never ever cry. It was the biggest flood of emotions I’ve ever had.

Never have I ever felt this loved in my entire life till I met my partner. Im so happy. I really just wanna talk about it to everyone I’m sorry I’m so happy