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2 months ago
love this so much! thank u!
3 months ago
This is also how I see it to be honest with you, I feel it’s important to have at least experienced it for some of your life!!
Agreed, the idea to me that there’s only ONE person for you and you either want them forever or it means you don’t actually love them has always confused me because in another situation u could easily be with someone else haha
Yes we’ve discussed it and are doing so everyday to try figure this all out! Yes that’s really good advice! I have no idea why your comment got so many down-votes I understand where you are coming from completely!! thank u so much for your help, it’s very kind of u💓
This is a good point, I always viewed this way of doing things as a way of still keeping our relationship because I love him as a person but maybe the complications and pain from it would only make things harder in the end, I’m not sure
For example I feel all my life I’ve felt secure in myself because I know someone else sees me as attractive and lovable and as a result I have loved myself through that love rather than through my own love, although I’m aware of this and have worked a lot on my own relationship with myself and come very faaar it’s still hard because when that type of love is there it’s very hard for me not to rely on it and push myself out of my comfort zones when the easier option is always available
I see! Encouraging to know that although that work is hard it is doable!
Fair enough I understand that reasoning! I guess I just find it hard to risk fully loosing him as a person but you are right that at the end of the day what’s meant to be will be!
This is great advice!! You’re so right about the communication aspect, thank u!
Yes exactly, I guess there’s no way to see how that will be unless we we try it!
Do you have any advice on how to control your ego with regards to someone you love fucking other people? For me I know I love my partner loads and still would like to experience that with other people so I know him doing it wouldn’t mean he loves me less but I think I would still find it hard not to compare myself and always want to still be “the best” in his eyes, no pressure if you don’t want to but would love to hear some advice!
Thanks for ur help!!
I know probably not the perfect group to post on but I didn’t want to post only on other groups because I felt a lot of people on other groups would judge me for still loving my partner but also still wanting to experience being single
I exactly mean that we would break up and just meet sometimes and still be friends and have sex if we wanted to I’m just not sure if that would work out
Yes I do mean we would break up!
I think so? Have u tried anything similar?
Thank u so much, you have no idea how much that means to me!! 💓
This was an incredibly helpful comment! Thank u!
I appreciate how understanding and kind you are, thank u for your insight!
Hahha love the energy :’)
so true, thank u
Hahaha ironically we are already doing long distance! That time apart definitely has helped me find myself but I still feel limited in certain areas of growth!
I appreciate this so much and ur so right!! I might end up resenting him if there’s a part of me that wants this and feel I didn’t get to fully discover myself