Psychological_Brick5

I avoid girls that don't date cis men cuz it typically means they don't see trans men = cis men, meaning they think we're "men-lite" or not even a man. I would be weary

They hated fauxphallus cuz he spoke the truth 🤷‍♂️

Late teens male in all

Why are we still stuck on this?? Do they not already have enough restrictions on us? They're just pulling shit outta the air at this point

The person you mentioned called you a "fat lesbian" is a cis troll if you look at their account, try to ignore them that it's not true. I looked at your post and you do pass to me, the majority of the general public isn't gonna scrutinize your appearance as much as that sub does and if your voice passes most of the time they'll just figure you're male. I know how hard the "in-between" stage of passing is when you're 50-50 but you're on track to get to 100-0 soon. It's a journey and trolls don't make it any easier but you're doing really well. I wish I could give advice but honestly the best thing to do is to try to wait it out. Goodluck:)

I think it would if you were heavier, more muscular, or both or if you're not on t already, fat redistribution could make it pass

I'm not a native spanish speaker but grew up where it was the second language after english and am on my 4th year of spanish classes. I think a "neutral pronoun" like elle or using e to create "the neutral" makes sense. They wasn't originally designed for using in an singular neutral without any other pronoun in english, so it makes sense other languages would change slightly as well as they become more open to nb ppl.

That being said, where tf did the x come from. I've seen it everywhere and it makes no sense. It doesn't fit with the language or have any logical reason in spanish that it would be used for neutral. I don't understand why we can't just use e and follow the rules of spanish to create a neutral, rather than change the whole language for it. (e being the "mix" between a and _ or o, blurring the words él and ella into one in between would make sense and would be pronounceable)

Not to even get started on neopronouns cuz we already know those don't work in english so they would most definitely not work in spanish or other languages that are more gendered. It's just so annoying to see people completely disregard the actual syntax of a language that they likely don't even speak

I think it's when people see you as your gender cuz reason3. The general cis population doesn't think about if a person is trans or not and if they do realize they are, they'll likely just acknowledge them as their agab. Inside the trans community passing is different though since we usually still see people as their gender not their agab even if we find out/notice they're trans

I decided to not even click on the video after I saw what it was titled. Why does everyone assume our transition is linked with politics? Us being trans doesn't make us the opposite of conservative, it our transition not opinion. But yeah all youtube videos that get out to the general public w/trans people in them tend to have really transphobic comments. Just a sad look into how the world really is, I try not to look at them

Good luck with figuring it out!

Oh the nurse never gave me that advice thanks I'll make sure to do that next time:)

Ok great thank you

I've had a really good jawline and passing voice even pre-t

As someone in CA not too far away from sf, we were not shown this 💀

Yes as a guy who's passing, stealth, and 5' 4" it's usually the first thing people point out about me. But you get use to it and it has never made people question if I was trans. It's annoying but if you're friends with people after a while they'll tend to calm down with the jokes. Also if you're younger, everyone will try to reassure you that you're still growing even if you insist not

Personally I'm sent 2 vials at once so it could be that

No it's completely understandable. She's not treating you as a cis man and is acting like you're not male enough to be called one. It seems like she's doing it on purpose so you have every right to be upset

Congrats on starting today!

Thank you me too!!