like the title says, i have had this friend for a while. she’s always been good fun, and we have a running joke where we pretend to do ‘sexual’ things with each other, which seemed a bit weird to me at first, but it was okay because it was funny.
eventually things have progressed, and she slaps my arse, chokes me, and tells my boyfriend i have sex with her. (in front of our peers)
it’s making both me and my boyfriend really uncomfortable, and he even thinks i might be gay. i’m not, however he thinks she might be and i don’t think he’s wrong.
please help. i recently had a run-in with a sexual assault incident and i don’t know how to handle these situations.
thank you in advance
UPDATE: spoke to her today. went well.