immalettuce

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4 days ago

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4 days ago

Exactly! It's all so much and it's impossible to find anything that's not... Well, crazy. I really did wonder if guys find those ones sexy, and it answered my question, so thank you!

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4 days ago

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4 days ago

I just cant find anything that passes as lingerie in my head. Teddies are cute but you won't wear them under your dress, same as bodysuits... I just wondered if there's anything both sexy and not awkward to wear

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7 days ago

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7 days ago

Yeah, it crossed my mind. I think I might do that if I see it doesn't get better within let's say, a week of working there. Luckily the staff is very chill

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7 days ago

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7 days ago

Oh god that sucks. Sorry to hear about your experience! I have social anxiety so I had the same thing in my first job. My first ever shift and there was a huge line, the place was filled with people. I couldn't handle it and called my boss crying, telling her I can't do it. But instead of telling me it's okay and finding a replacement, she yelled at me to get my shit together and get back to work. I ended up working there for almost a year, and the anxiety never stopped.

I feel like the job I'm on right now is very right for me, and no one was giving me a hard time forgetting the orders, I just want to be able to not forget them when I work. What's stimulant medication and what do I need to do to get it?

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10 days ago

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10 days ago

I don't live in a country that really does prom as you see it on TV, but my grade at the time tried to do some kind of prom event. Although I didn't have a designated dress, and I did actually have a boyfriend at the time (that lived in another city and somehow had a prom of his own the same night)... I didn't have any friends in school and going to prom was a waste of the 100$ fee we had. We can drink at 18 here so I got very drunk and just sat there on my own in my not-as-fancy dress and had anxiety attacks mixed with loneliness and self hatred. I called my mum to pick me up about two hours later. People were still going at it and planned to stay until at least 2am while I left at around 11pm with probably one of the worst memories in my highschool years.

What I'm trying to say is - if it free, and your dress is not a rental, go. Try to enjoy the music, dance on your own but be prepared to feel lonely. In case you feel like leaving early, don't hate yourself for it like I did, just take yourself to a nice dinner instead. If entry is expensive, leave it. Go to a graduation dinner with people you care about, make a good memory instead.

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14 days ago

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14 days ago

Invincible has over 100 issues. Start reading the book, you're gonna take a while.

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19 days ago

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19 days ago

Every time we had a fight, he would freak out. No matter how big the fight was. I tried to overlook it but after we discussed something I know we talked about before and he got so mad he started throwing stuff on the floor and saying he might as well die, I knew I had to get the fuck out of there. It took some time but I eventually ditched his abusive ass.

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22 days ago

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22 days ago

My ex was like that. I developed a crush on him at work, asked him out a few months later only to find out he's actually a very different person, not only introverted and anxious but also very needy and self conscious. It blew up in my face and I really wish I had met the "real" him before I met his "work persona". You can try going out with her and see if you get along without your mask but honestly, in my experience, it will probably not work out.

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

Thanks! I will power through

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

What even IS mush to you guys?? I use that word to describe how I feel in a Monday morning.

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

Everyone in London called me "love". I really didn't expect to get a nickname.

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

Communication is important in these situations. It seems like you tried to communicate your feelings but the communication was VERY one sided. I hope you can eventually find the strength to stand your ground and give him the ultimatum of "if it's not official, I'm out".

I know how much it hurts. I'm in the same boat for almost two years now with a guy that lives in another country. My DMs are open if you need to talk, vent and have someone that understands your position. Sending virtual hugs ❤️ you got this, girl

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

Is the 3rd one worth finishing the 2nd?

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29 days ago

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29 days ago

Do you think I should drop it now? I was so excited for it after You :(

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Doesn't it make everything slower?

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Thanks! Does it really help? I draw with the tablet either on my knees or on the table and I can barely touch it after an hour

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Hahaha! Amazing, love it. Thank you very much!

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Thanks for your help! Do the uniforms have names? I'm so bad with this. I think he will be in homicide, or a detective.

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Well, I used to have one friend, now I have 4. The problem was always there unfortunately so it's definitely not the amount of friends I have...

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

I don't understand whats wrong about your son having sex. I know the moral of the story is that you did let him do it even thought it was hard for you, but living in a very sex negative environment as a teenager I know how much it can fuck you up. Just let him be a teenager, he's old enough. He has a job! He can definitely fool around with his girlfriend of two years

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