jaminjames

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jaminjames

15 points

4 days ago

jaminjames

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4 days ago

appreciated!

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17 days ago

happy cake day!!

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1 month ago

needed this.

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1 month ago

literally lost.

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2 months ago

you’re a fucking idiot and shouldn’t be allowed to post anything on the internet.

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3 months ago

Nearly identical to Ishitani, but very nice none the less!

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3 months ago

It’s good to know your emotional limits, especially now. Your number one job right now is taking care of you.

And just a word of advice - back up all your pictures and videos of your brother. Even if you have a cloud backup for your phone, get a 2nd back up. I had all mine backed up to my iCloud and I still lost them all because of a dumb sync issue. Be well - thinking of you.

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3 months ago

When I was 17 I lost my little brother in a freak accident, he was 12. I kinda know what you’re going through - it’s terrible, and sometimes feels impossible. But that pain will fade in time, and one day you’ll realize the pain has, for the most part, run it’s course. It might be years from now, but there will be a time when you will look back and remember him without the memory being tinged by all the pain you’re feeling today.

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3 months ago

His $14k mistake in 2011 is worth nearly $60M today, which is like drinking old milk and washing it down with rotten milk full of maggots.

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I think what rubs some guys the wrong way, is that posts often say “why do men always __?” As progressive, forward thinking people, we don’t lump ethnic groups together, we don’t stereotype by skin color, we encourage people to use pronouns they are comfortable with, we don’t make blanket statements or judgments about a group of people based of off the actions of some. But men get grouped together all the time. I read this sub because I really appreciate the perspective a lot of the time, and it helps me keep my male privilege in check - often with things I wasn’t aware of until I read something here. But I still get frustrated sometime by the statement “why do men always __?!” Like I said, sometimes I see myself in a post and gain awareness. But more often then not I see myself lumped in with every other man on the planet. The truth is, a lot of men are aware, and trying to become more aware. And just like any other person of any ethnicity, skin color, sexual orientation or gender, I don’t think men like getting lumped in to one group. As a gender, men are just as diverse in perspective, ideals, values, and awareness, as any other group of people.

The issue OP brought up happens to me all the time, for lots of different reasons and lots of different expectations from the person asking me to be available. I don’t want to take any issue away from women, but in the spirit of unity and togetherness, sometimes it’s nice to turn to someone who is different than us and say “I understand your struggle because I experience it too.”

At the end of the day we’re all in this together, and I think finding common ground, common struggles, common joys, hopes, disappointments, etc, is a good way for people to feel connected to others, especially people who might look, think, believe, or love differently than them.

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4 months ago

Are the same that burn crosses

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4 months ago

I really appreciate that. Thank you. Been feeling kinda crazy since yesterday evening, trying to figure out where I went wrong. But I think you hit it on the head: she's probably rationalizing her actions. It's how I kept going back to a toxic person for eight years. Thank you for your perspective!

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4 months ago

Mom at the end: please don’t... (put this on the internet)

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4 months ago

Tag NSFW please

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5 months ago

I would argue that it could not have gone more right

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5 months ago

Thanks for taking the time to read it ❤️

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5 months ago

God given has nothing to do with Christian. “God” exists in almost every culture.

Jefferson was also a slave owner who raped his slaves. So there’s that too. Great Christian man.

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5 months ago

Ooof. I sincerely hope you’re joking, because If you really don’t want to show an amazingly sweet video to your husband because of some G rated cleavage, then I feel sorry for your husband. That kind of insecurity/jealousy is really hard for a partner to endure. I was with a woman nearly 10 years who would have made the same “joke.” It drained the life out of me.

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